How to Live in the World and Remain Sane
by JMD
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To live in this world and remain sane, it is necessary
to have a broad outlook. We need to see the whole picture, otherwise we
will become victims of narrow-mindedness. Our shortsightedness will make
us blind to the consequences of our actions, hence we will remain enmeshed
in our habitual patterns and unhealthy lifestyle.
In the cosmic plan, in the universal scheme of
things, our attachments and images are not very important. So, why should
we worry so much about so little? We need to step back and objectify the
human experience. This drama has been going on for a very long time. The
actors change, the props are rearranged, but the plot remains the same.
Most people are self-involved and plotting for their own comforts and
pleasures, and very few realize they are digging their own graves or building
their own funeral pyres.
We are caught up in the gray matter between our
ears, and everything we do and think is colored by what we have in our
mind. It is impossible to see clearly so long as our mind is filled with
images, preconceived notions, biased opinions, and false feelings. Only
Wisdom can put our house in order, but first we need to open the door
of our heart to let the wisdom enter.
Wisdom is very clear. It is both profound and simple.
It is not complicated or ambiguous. But a bigoted person cannot grasp
the simple truth because he is in the grip of ego. We are bigots when
we are prejudiced against our own soul, when we deliberately go against
our own true nature and ignore good advice. Any time we hold on to our
small self, our ego gets very big and blocks our reasoning; hence, we
become unreasonable and irrational.
Our unrealistic expectations are the result of
a bloated ego. When our mind is puffed up with our images we become head-strong
and are unable to cope with a challenging situation. Our life becomes
problmatic and we become irritable and anxious.
We cannot always correct every situation, but we
can always correct ourselves. Others will change in their own time---either
for the better or the worse. They will not change just because we want
them to change, or wish they would change, or insist that
they should change. They will change only when they change their practices.
Likewise, we will improve only if our practices improve.
It is not necessary to be goal-oriented. Rather,
we should orient ourselves to the Absolute Truth. As long as we are involved
with our temporary friends, relations, moods, desires, images, and feelings,
we will remain disoriented and confused inspite of all that we accomplish
or accumalate.
If we are clear about our supreme goal of liberation
(MOKSHA), we will not be fooled by the stories of our mind, or by anyone
else's story. We will be in the world, but not of it. We will remain duty-bound,
but never bound up by superficial obligations and false attachments. We
will do our duty without any aggravation or expectation. We will see this
world as a big drama and never get caught up in its miseries, pains, and
traumas.
What others have done to themselves, we cannot
undo. All we can do is show them a better way by taking the right path
ourselves and welcoming them to join us. Of course, we are duty-bound
to enjoin ourselves with our loved ones in a spirit of selfless love.
But those who remain selfish will lose even their own soul, what to say
of their loved ones.
We need to shun all selfishness and pettiness.
Let us enlarge our hearts to include the whole universe. When we feel
the spirit of universal love, all our personal pains disappear and our
mind is at peace. When our mind is at peace, we can see clearly and no
longer distort the situation with our personal bias.
The healing begins only when we fill ourselves
with inner peace. Peace is the product of harmony. As long as there is
inner conflict there can be no peace. When our images are in conflict
with reality, when our ideas and opinions are biased (based on ego), when
our desires are unnatural and our feelings abnormal, we are bound to suffer
from inner turmoil, stress, and anxiety.
It is natural for the soul to desire for liberation---for
freedom from all pain and selfishness. It is healthy to feel inspired
to do good, to speak the truth, and to live the truth. It is a very freeing
experience to give up all your images and cut loose from all your false
attachments. Those human beings who renounce ego in all their undertakings,
become established in Supreme Consciousness. There is no other way to
live in this world and remain sane.
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